I am starting to feel very alone...
Alone in the fact, that I feel I may be one of a handful of people who believes in disciplining my child.
Now anyone who knows me knows that it doesn't take much to set me off... I admit, I have a very short fuse (my father says that I am always looking for a fight, but I swear I'm not) and don't have patience for much but seriously?!?!?!
Question...
If your 5/6 year old child was in the dugout climbing on the fences and swinging a bat around (near other kids), would you say something or would you just act as if your child's baseball game is free time for you to not pay attention to them?
When I go to my child's game, I am there to watch them... I want to be a part of everything my kids do (which is why I have always been Team Mom for Boog's teams). Well this is the first season that I am not Team Mom and I cannot stand to watch the utter chaos!
Today I got up out of my chair and walked in to the dugout in the middle of the game to tell the kids to put their bats down until it was time for them to hit. I also told them to sit on the bench and to cheer for their team mates.
Apparently one father didn't appreciate me doing this and came over and said something snotty to me.
My first reaction was OBVIOUSLY to take him out in the parking lot after the game and then run him over with my car (isn't that what any normal mother would do?) but I just watched in shock as he walked off...
Now.... I feel that if you want a say in anything, then you need to get off of your lazy butt and volunteer to help out in someway. Be involved some how! My husband is an assistant coach, and I am also involved... What has this father ever done? Nothing!!! So sit down and shut your face!!!! Thank you!
I am so shocked in how many kids are so horribly behaved and the parents are too busy chatting with each other or grading papers (a few of the parents are teachers) to even notice their kids knocking their team mates helmets off, screaming, swinging bats, etc... Why do you have children if you don't care to teach them how to act properly????? Aren't parents supposed to raise their children and teach them right from wrong?
I am just so frustrated!!! I just am starting to feel that I am one of the only people who believes in discipline any more. It seems that parents care more about themselves than their children. UGHHHH!!!!